The Weight of Adolescence
Adolescence is a time of major change. Hormones bring new, overwhelming emotions. Academics become increasingly competitive. Social media can offer community to those feeling isolated, but it can also distort self-worth, body image, and values. On top of this, teenagers are in a developmental stage where they're struggling to figure out who they are, juggling individuation, defining what they care about, and trying to fit in.
Anger, anxiety, depression, and hopelessness are common. These emotions can lead to perfectionism, self-harm, risky behaviors, substance use, or just going numb and "checking out."
Feeling like they are losing themselves is frightening not just for teens but for their parents watching it happen. It can be difficult to know how to help, especially when every attempt seems to push the teen further away.
How I Work With Teens
I offer teens a safe place to navigate their feelings, figure out who they are, and explore who they want to be. When appropriate, I also involve parents and other family members to help repair damaged communication and relationships. I can help your teen be happy, healthy, successful and safe.
Angry Young Men
Most people don't know what to do with them. Teachers write them off. Peers are freaked out. Parents lie awake running doom scenarios: Will he get expelled? Will he hurt someone? Will he become one of those stories on the news? The fear is intense - and isolating - for both the parents and their son.
Angry young men don't scare me. I was one. Angry at the world and myself, and acting out in dangerous ways.
Here's what I know from both lived and clinical experience: underneath that anger is always pain, fear, and a desperate need to be seen by someone who isn't going to flinch. These boys aren't broken. They just haven't been given the tools - or a safe space - to feel anything other than rage.
If your son is heading toward adulthood and you're worried about the man he's becoming, I can help. For more on how I approach the challenges men across all ages, visit the Men's Issues page.
What We Address
I see teens in person at my Hermosa Beach office in the South Bay area of Los Angeles; at locations of your choice (such as home or park) in a concierge capacity; and via secure telehealth throughout California, including greater Los Angeles, San Francisco, San Diego, and Sacramento.
If this sounds like what you're looking for, let's talk.
Your Therapist
Alex Douglas, LCSW 127148
15+ years in entertainment before becoming a therapist. EMDRIA-approved EMDR training. LGBTQIA+ affirmative.